When I get angry I get angry about the work. Not angry about you. Not angry about the client. Only angry about the work.
As a result, there will be yelling. And shouting. And outbursts. That's just what's going to happen. Because I want to, nay NEED to put out something people are going to watch.
Something, hopefully, that people are going to like. We're not paid to make clients invisible. We're paid to expose them. Expose them through, and you can repeat after me:
THE WORK.
That's the alpha. The omega. The only thing.
And if I'm putting myself into it, I expect you to put a little bit of yourself into it as well. To care about its wellbeing. So maybe when I yell it's a little bit about you.
But it's all about the work.